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Originally Posted by Rose76
If ever you find a place where people act the way they are supposed to act, I'ld like to move to that planet.
These love birds will have their ups and downs, just like everybody else. Her family sees fault in your son. They're just too smart to show they notice. They are out to make their little girl happy.
So you already don't like the grandkids. Pardon me, Tisha, but you are going out of your way to be negative. Maybe you need to do that for awhile. Hurts heal, if we don't keep picking at them. You deserve to heal. But you have to allow it.
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There are many people who do act the way I think they would act. My son has always acted the way I would think he would act. Now, I sense a change in him. Is that so hard for anyone here to understand? I’m not imagining it.
I didn’t say I don’t like possible future grandchildren. Why are you putting words in my mouth? I said I may not have much involvement with him and his family at all, and I accept that.
If his wife doesn’t like his family, and there’s a rift, that will be true.
I don’t want to have that kind of stress in my life.
Even though I have an emotional disorder, I’m listening to my emotions and to my intuition. I grew up trusting my instincts before learning about MI, and I am still going to.
Don’t I have a right to be hurt at my son’s impertinence and lack of trust and faith in his parents?
This is all an especially sore subject because my family has a running theme of parents who stabbed their children in the back.