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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Now that I am looking back and blaming my choices on MI I didn’t know I had...
The ones I fell in love with didn’t love me back, only teased me. I found the ones who did love me and tried to love them back.
But, I think this is all part of BPD. 
Subconsciously, you are causing it for yourself. I have now learned other people don’t do this. |
I'm sorry you feel you are causing it for yourself. I disagree with that for all people struggling to find someone though. I don't think LL is causing it for herself. I don't think I am causing it for myself, either. I don't see it as a product of my mental health issues. I do see it, as a possible product of the way I grew up, and the way I experienced "love" early on with boyfriends, and low self esteem (in the past). I also see it as just not having met the right person. Sure, there's work to be done on myself, but I personally don't attribute it to my mental health issues.