i just think the important thing is to find faith in the idea that all will get better eventually bluesguy... there's struggles now and its hard trying to find your lighted way out, but it happens, and sometimes i know i am the one who is too impatient..

all things happen for a reason, and all good things happen in their own time...

ive found when i try to 'push' for an outcome, often its not the outcome i would have wanted...

as ive been told by wise others.. if it doesn't seem to happen of its own will, perhaps its not meant to be..

but that shouldnt invalidate your wants or hopes.. just not time? ... not the right girl? ... still more work to be done before you're ready for that kind of commitment?

for me, its always faith.. when i am ready, what i want will present itself....