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Old Jan 17, 2018, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Coming up tails View Post
I think we all have attached to some kind of mother figure even if it was before we can remember. I dont think a child could survive if it didnt attach somehow even if a very unhealthy attachment.


I have an ambivalent attachment style... come here... go away kinda thing. I have never had a safe attachment. Schema Therapy deals with helping the inner vulnerable child to have a safe attachment to then be able to attach to others healthily. Maybe look in to that. But its not for the faint hearted...


Thank you! I’m going to look into Schema Therapy. My counselor uses different types of approaches and in a way he has helped different parts of me care for and encourage other parts. I’m not sure if that’s the same thing or not.
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Thanks for this!
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