If Im truly honest, I can see you (LT) developing strong transference for your T.

I dont say that to freak you out, cause anxiety or to be rude. I personally feel I see it coming from a mile away. And if it was me, I'd want someone to tell me. I have been following your story and hope you dont mind my observation. I could be wrong though. And I dont see strong transference as a bad thing. Or something to feel bad over at all. Feelings are just that.... feelings.

I see similarities between us of there being an attachment issue that needs to be processed but M.C seemed to not be able to process it fully with you. At least not so far. It needs to be with someone who has the skills to work through it. And I think the lack of strong boundaries, disqualified M.C and has just made it worse for you. I think there is an excellent chance you will work through it with your T.