I am no good at vacations. Last year's ended in big major rupture. Next month she's taking a long weekend and she has several of these planned throughout the year. We need to start talking about it because I only have 8 sessions to work it out. And that sounds pathetic. I think what might be worse is on her long vacation, I'm planning on taking my vacation the same time and being out of town myself in hopes that it will make it easier.

I just try to remind myself that it is where I am right now with my process and path, that I won't always be at this place, in terms of my reaction around the concept of T taking a vacation.