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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
As I was writing in the thread how old is your t, I got to thinking does-age and generations matter?
To me it does matter, I don’t want to see a really old t who doesn’t understand computers or sexuality or things that are ever changing.
I remember having one session with a partially deaf woman in her late 60’s.
I had to keep repeating and explaining things to her.
I told her I was gay yet she kept referring to my ex as ‘him’. It really annoyed me.
Current t is pretty well up on this generation, she has children my age, she does yoga, meditation and is quite good on computer, answering emails, texts.
I don’t think it would matter with t because we connect at a deeper level.
Just wondering how you connect with your t?
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Well. Age doesn't equate too your genralisations you've quoted.
My T is 63. Still does uni courses. Runs a club for children with language issues. Is very tech savvy. Is very aware of others religion and sexuality.
Perhaps connecting to a highly skilled therapist is the issue here.