It’s absolutely understandable. It’s not cheap. Plus they make you pay for like 6 months and don’t refund your money. I was on there for a month but had to pay for all six.

Meetups could be fun even if not for dating and some cost no money at all. Someone I know met her boyfriend on walking meetup. All that group did is met at the parks and walked. Nice people too, I walked with them once as her guest. Didn’t cost a penny.