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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
How did you feel about your t hypothesising about your sexuality? Did that fit for you at the time or now?
I think it’s more than age and religious factors, there is a level of intimacy that you are both comfortable with too. You must have a good relationship with your t. I remember somebody suggesting I wasn’t gay before and I felt like punching them in the face because I didn’t really know them enough for them to say that.
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Well, I'm quite certain even now that I'm not gay. Maybe I might have some bisexual tendencies but nothing like what I would like to actively explore.
It is my interpretation based on his questions that he might have hypothesised about my sexuality, he never voiced any hypothesis explicitly. How did I feel? I don't think I felt in any particular way because I just blocked these questions at that time. I guess I wasn't ready to really explore my sexuality then (and I'm not even now), the material we have been working with over the year is much more young and primitive and the adult sexuality is just a too advanced topic even now. Back then he did not know that yet (I guess I didn't know either).
But I think I was relieved him asking these questions. It just gave me confidence that he is comfortable talking about all kinds of things and he wouldn't be afraid to ask me something if that would be too difficult to approach myself.