You tried again, and now you know. This is about him, not you.

What IS about you is that it seems so hard for you to be able to accept this about him, that you may not want it to be true, that you keep trying to think of ways that his responses are YOUR fault, that's there is something that you can do to change the situation, to change him and the way he responds to things.

For what it is worth, this is a common response pattern in people who come from "dysfunctional families". I have had it, too.

Friday isn't so far away. I hope that your new T can help you some with this. We are here, too.