My T is 24 years older than me. And that works great for me. I couldnt work with someone young.
We connect overvlotsa things, mostly she really gets me and I feel cared dor. Plus, we do share some views that aren't related to therapy.
I think I have to connect on a personal level and not just a professional one. I can't work with men. She knows everything about me and never judges or seems put off.