I am a lesbian and I deliberately choose straight ones of those guys. I don't want to run into them in my community (which is not very large). Also, I think it can lead to a belief that there is more understanding than really exists. I did not go to therapy because of being a lesbian and have no need for the therapist I hire to identify or understand it. All they need do is accept it.
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