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Originally Posted by stopdog
I am a lesbian and I deliberately choose straight ones of those guys. I don't want to run into them in my community (which is not very large). Also, I think it can lead to a belief that there is more understanding than really exists. I did not go to therapy because of being a lesbian and have no need for the therapist I hire to identify or understand it. All they need do is accept it.
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I agree, all my t needs to do is accept it too. I feel that by having a lesbian t there would be some collusion and definitely an understanding that they understand but they don’t because every lesbian is different same as every heterosexual is.
I did have huge problems accepting my own sexuality and huge issues with other lesbians and seeing a t who was a lesbian too would complicate the connection.