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I don’t want a t to bring sexuality into the equation. I had maternal transference for my t which eventually turned into erotic. It was fine for me to fantasise but if she had of disclosed that she was gay or felt the same about me, I would have been out of there so fast. For years I dreamed about being with my t but now that would be my biggest fear.
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My therapist's sexuality doesn't mean she wants to be with me. Like you, if she disclosed that had feelings for me, I would be horrified. This is categorically different to her stating her sexuality which was factual information and relevant in context. Shared sexuality doesn't mean shared attraction. Thank fu©k!
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I am a lesbian and I deliberately choose straight ones of those guys. I don't want to run into them in my community (which is not very large).
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This makes practical sense. Luckily for me, I am far too socially hostile to be an active member of my lesbian community.