I am so stressed about my relationship with my husband, and trying to deal with the betrayals, and I don't need anything new to deal with... His parents are manipulative and difficult on a good day. I tried to compromise. Y saying that we could go, and stay in a hotel so we'd have some space to relax... He insists we should stay at their house. And if I don't agree, even if I'm not comfortable, he will say that I am unforgiving.
I was blindsided by this to start with... And now he is rushing me and my kids into a relationship with them that we aren't ready for. I don't see why he can't see that it would be bed for our marriage to do this to me... In Addition to everything else.