Not shutting the bathroom door when she is using the shower or toilet is pretty odd in a roommate situation.

Pick your battles, like the top few things on the list. She may counter with her own list of things you do that bother her... and I am not sure I'd let her know that you actually have a list of issues, that might make her feel like she is being monitored. I am also not sure it's realistic to expect her to change, unfortunately.

How well do you get along outside of the cleanliness stuff?