Ginny, on the posting page, it says Instant Smiles, has 2 1/2 rows of smiles, the last one is a cowboy and then says more smiles. Click that. A box will open with several selections. Click on the one you want. In the post box, (where I am typing right now) you will see it say something like :spin heart OR :Chili
Then you know you have it. Then hit your continue button and when your post goes to top WAAALAAAA spinning heart or Chili, or whatever you chose. Hope that helps.