Jeeze. I can't believe that. I don't blame you at all for being annoyed and hurt that she didn't take this seriously. Frankly I think that she is in the wrong about this. When you posted before you had lots of people say that yes, this would have made them horribly uncomfortable too. So this isn't an oversensitivity on your part. And I think you were pretty brave to tell her about your feelings. I wish she had been more understanding. Even if she couldn't change the situation, she should have been willing to try to understand your feelings.