Yes yes yes when they were younger it was sleep over now rhey are older its music concerts. When they are t their dads they dont tell me when they are going out except if something goes wrong like the tide came in and flooded their camp and the friends car.. I took get them to sometimes take pics but usually i get them to text. We have a local hil that is popular to walk up but on the road you share it with cars as people live there and there is a look out on top the road has several hairpin bends which makes walkers hard to see. I seriously freak out when they do that and i will make every excuse not to take them.
My eldest is going to uni in 2 weeks time to our nations capital about 2000 km away. I am freaking about that too. I dont find talking to my T about my children and parenting skills helpful as it always feels i am being judged so i just suffer alone.