I don’t have kids yet so I can’t imagine and this doesn’t even compare, but I’ve been nannying for the same family for over 3 years and the kids are now 13 and 10. I have childhood trauma so I worry like CRAZY for them, especially the oldest when she is allowed to sleep over at friend’s houses that the parents hardly even know. I’m not judging the parents because we just come from different worlds, but it sucks being so invested and then having to worry knowing I can’t be there for them all the time because I’m only the Monday-Friday nanny. I’ve never talked in depth with my T about this, but I bet when I have my own kids I will a lot more.