That's the plan I'm going with, Dispair-. Today I tried to get him into a good rehab facility, but they didn't think insurance would pay for it. But the VA will pay for him to go up to 30 days to a nursing home that they have a contract with. Their contracts are not with the posher places. They contract with the no frills nursing homes, but one of those places will have to do.

He just sits in his recliner 23 hours a day. He needs to get out of this apartment to an environment that will demand more of him. He's willing to go. I'm committed now to this course of action.