That is so upsetting, and it sounds like her T costume fell off. I wonder if she will cool off, and then give you the "I am only human " speech? That trigger point was definitely about her, and not you. I am struggling with my T too. I feel like he was harsh to me, and he got very upset I felt that way, and it was more like real fighting in a real relationship for a while there. I am sad and confused , and have been for a few weeks. I hope your good relationship doesnt end over a bad moment, but the therapeutic alliance tear and repair is your T's job. I hope she comes through for you and makes it right.