The pros are my daughter’s mother will remain in the U.S. My family will not be broken up. All of us will be very very sad if she were to leave. She has a life here that she does not want to give up. She has been through some terrible things in her life but strong as ever. She has not seen her family since the age of thirteen. She is now in her fifties. So it would be very nice if she had the opportunity to see her family again. We can have a working relationship. In return for what the marriage will provide her, she can periodically clean my house and provide me food. Of course we will help each other when we can. Her cooking is very healthy compared to mine, and her food is quite tastey. Oh yes, she makes allot of money in comparison to those in Mexico. She has been saving every penny so she has some money to retire with. Maybe she should be in charge of my money. I spend the amount above bills very quickly. I know this will not work, but this is a fleeting thought.

The cons are I still do have some feelings for her as I did in the past. No way can it work between us if we were back together. That is why I want her to continue living in her own home. I just cannot read into this as being anything more than a marriage that serves purposes, important purposes. But at first this will be very difficult for me. I have believed that marriage protects a very special relationship for the two being in love. But I have never have been in love until I met her. I just realized this today. So no wonder I have problems with this. Oh yes, I do not understand Spanish but maybe a vacabulary of about 500 words. But this has not stopped us from communicating reasonably well most of the time. So I will need to learn more Spanish. I have been thinking about this for some time anyways. I need to be able to communicate well with my wife.