I used to be in therapy (31 years to be exact). I used to want to be the best I could be. I used to do all the right things. Highly overrated. Well I left therapy because no therapist wanted to work with an old BPD. They said if you don't have it yet nothing they can do. That hurt at first then I decided the h**l with it I am going to be me at age 67. I work full time and hard I want to play hard. I am me with BPD. I am NOT me BPD with nothing else. I don't define myself anymore with a DSM-V description. I am me with loads of parts one of which is BPD. I want to live life have fun travel and if my destiny is to be alone so be it. It is what it is. We are supposed to have a distorted view of reality well is that so bad. Reality today government is shut down there are starving children and adults. I could go on for pages of what is wrong with reality and the world. I like my distorted view. maybe others should have OUR view. End of rant. Good night everyone and have the best life you can.