I have a strong feeling that she did. She usually shuts down and doesn't respond to my texts when she is feeling this way. Actually, I really hope she actually says something if she is hurt. I understand when people get silent for a few days, but when she didn't attempt to answer me at all for a whole month for something very small that wasn't even my fault, it made me question our friendship (that was a separate incident). I wouldn't have done that to her, but I forgave her.

Since she has given me the silent treatment before, I just wouldn't be surprised if it is happening now, except this time I do see where I went wrong. Still, I find it wrong for someone to not give a friend the time of day to explain why they are mad for such a long period of time.

I did just bring this up to my brother. He told me that I shouldn't over-apologize and that a good friend would be willing to talk about why they are mad. He said I should just be myself, instead of worrying about what everyone thinks all the time.

Here's the thing: I have been validating and listen to her A LOT. I often feel like her therapist. It gets to a point where you feel you need to give some feedback, since you are constantly validating the person. It gets to a point where I feel it wouldn't hurt to give some feedback. Plus, I feel I should be allowed to express myself and feel "safe enough" to be a human, rather than a programmed therapist. I immediately saw where I went wrong and apologized, so I feel if she is going to be overly sensitive about this and ignore me, then maybe she doesn't value the friendship the way I do?