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Originally Posted by mcl6136
These points make sense to me. I guess, for me, the idea that if I don't like Mister email, then how am I ever going to be in a relationship is just so clueless and unhelpful. I am having such a hard time today. I feel really hopeless.
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I'm so very sorry you are having a hard time, and feeling hopeless. Even if/when you know cognitively it's not hopeless, necessarily, feeling hopeless to me seems like better evidence than anything I can tell myself.
I hope some of the feeling passes and you can feel some better soon!!!
If/when you meet the "right guy" it will then be obvious that all was not hopeless but of course you don't know for sure until/if it happens.
I thought I would never get married but then fell for a guy a work. I was the one who spoke first, in person. We had 24 good years until he died. So you never know. On both sides actually -- who will come into your life and when they will leave.