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Old Jan 22, 2008, 10:33 AM
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I think it is hard, if you have to drop out of school, to get back in the swing and even get a GED, etc. I have a friend who had her son when she was 14 and she got the GED and started to community college in a special program. I was helping her with the math but it's really hard if you otherwise don't have a stable life and have to work, raise kid(s), and want a "life". She stopped going after all her work because it was too hard for her. You seriously have to have a lot on the ball in the first place and then have to be able to access it within while there's all sorts of distractions happening around you.

I think a lot of teen mothers don't necessarily "learn" from having a child if they're not in a marriage and just continue on with their old ways as much as they can, instead of thinking about the future. I don't think teens who are thinking college generally get pregnant? And 30 is pretty early; a child is only going to be 11-15 or so years old and still needing support and driving around, etc. I wonder what percentage have gone by 40, bet it goes up.
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