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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Sorry you're struggling with this. I'd basically tell him what you wrote here--could print it out and hand it to him if it's too hard to say. Or say something like, "It feels like you've jumped to conclusions about me when I've only given you information about one area of my life. And now I'm reluctant to open up and feeling guarded." If you use "I feel" statements, then it's less accusatory. Can I ask how long you've been seeing him?
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Hi LonesomeTonight,
Thanks for replying. I have been seeing him about 3 months but its taken a long time to get to where I "shared some stuff I am embarrassed about" I think it's just my own fear getting in the way, not him. Just going to go in and try not to let my fear get in the way and just see what I can learn. Maybe he has already decided, I don't know, but my job is to be willing, not let fear get in my way and see what I can Lear. Thanks again for replying.