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Old Jan 20, 2018, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
Some of us have grown up being told that what we think and feel isn't true or valid. It's a re-enactment to go into therapy and get the same.
Wisdom.

That's what I feel my therapist had on the menu. When I got agitated and made the case for my gut level take on things, she doubled down and let me know that if I wasn't open to this kind of approach from a guy online, then how would I ever get in a relationship? Which was kind of like, girl, eat what's put in front of you. Yeah, I grew up with that program and I'm not going back there any time soon!