i do think that it might help you clarify if you set up another session, just so you can see if she is aware of her total effup, or is not...it might help you decide to continue with her or not. i would also be really upset and pissed off if my T said that to me. i think i would have stared at her increduously if she said that to me. I agree with others that something in her personal life overrided her T "role."