allautumn, thank you for the input, it is good to get views from other people. You definately put things into a different light. Her visions dont cause her any harm, most of them are preminitions of where she will be in in the time to come, it is just very difficult for me to believe in it. I am just not sure, I guess it is just too strange for me but it will have to be something for me to overcome if I ever want to bring our relationship closer.