This kind of reminds me of my clinical psychologist I qorked with many years ago. He was very sure of what he was doing, and I dint doubt he was a smart guy who kbew his research and job. However, I didnt click with him and repeatedly shut him down. He never acted hurt, tho.

I dony like how self confident he sometimes was regarding his therapy. And I said stuff back then that was bot, well, nuce or polite sometimes.

Your conversation sounds weird to me. If have wished for a T or pdoc to examine more what would make you feel held or such.
I'd prob go back to that the next time you see him to discuss your feelings. You shouldn't have to deal with his in that situation, I'd say.