[QUOTE=unaluna;5987748 To me, it was more, "i cant depend on you, i can only depend on my parents, even if they hurt me" is a slap in the face of a ts work in general. Not personal, except really to the client. Why does no one see it as i do??![/QUOTE]

I don't understand any of it the way you say you see things. I never understand what you mean (except maybe that one time I did) That one might still see one's parents, flawed though they may be, as being more important/dependable/whatever than a therapist has no bearing on the therapist at all.