It was miscommunication for sure. We just talked (although getting back is still not an option), and understood what we misunderstood if that makes sense. There was a lot of assumptions based on our actions, not by communication. Our love languages are different played a large roll in it. We split and got back together and she just couldnt get passed the past.
We both love each other, love each others families, but for her she cant go back and risk feeling the hurt again.
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Sorry to hear it couldn't work out.
Did she give any indication why compatibility wasn't there? I use that word in a relative way to her being closed off. Which to me, involves some type of communication gap.
I, myself, for instance, can seem to build some invisible wall, yet, oddly enough, for myself, it's more a matter of 'penny for thoughts' as an ice breaker. As well as, if I'm mustering/mulling over something that needs to be addressed yet I'm torn up inside about peacefully saying whatever it is, then I, myself, need to be heard without defensive posturing or with slapstick solution(aka fixing it).
That's where communication plays a large role and why I toss in the word compatibility.
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