It reminds me of my first therapy session with my first T. She was an intern too and in the first sessions kept writing on her notebook and didn't say that much. I had to sign a questionnaire too and she didn't read it. Then she said that usually they read the questionnaire later not in session I think to not waste the client's time! But then she became more open and more directive later on. So it's possible that your T is waiting, wants to know you first before talking, wants to give you time to open up. If you prefer a more directive T I would say try to confront her about this and tell her what are your needs, which is always a bit difficult at first. But she's there to listen to you so don't worry, you can talk about everything and express all your concerns
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