Hm, yeah, I don't know... It may seem counterintuitive, but have you considered penpals? I'm just spitballing here, but penpals and other relationships of this kind can provide quite a different type of stimulus... I personally don't like it (for me it's too stressful if another person is waiting for my personal message on the other end), but who knows. At least I feel that it's a different experience from posting on a forum.