Hi,

A few weeks ago I found out that my T is I'll and she won't get better anymore. It is devastating... She keeps working for a while still, but I don't know what to do. I have a great relationship with her. We worked together for over 6 years, but I feel like I can't talk about my issues to someone with such a big "issue" herself. She shouldn't be doing that at this point. But that's her decision of course.

I don't know what I have to do next. I know that if she won't be there anymore I'll be completely lost. I depend on her support a little too much. I feel like I should go look for a new therapist already... And it feels so wrong and scary. Nobody can replace her. Also, I don't think I can start the whole process all over again. There are things that took me over 4 to 5 years to finally talk about.

Sad (and maybe a bit wrong) to say but... I'm losing the most important person in my life. I went to see her after my boyfriend committed suicide and my friend was murdered. Having no support at all from my family she was the only one I could talk to. And now I'm losing her too. I don't know what to do...

Just hoping someone can give me some advice somehow... :-(