I have to rant:

today, one of the most valued members on my joke group quit.

all because someone joined who had hurt him in the past

I got really angry and posted to him privately, this personn changed his ways, you need to give him a chance- but he replied saying he wouldn't rejoin

so then I posted on the list.. you ****ing child. do what you want.

but yeah. I've lost him, and 4 other members in the previous 2 days. I am not ****ing happy about it