My sense of this is messed up. Go figure that!

I like words and their definitions and when I’m trying to sort things out, I like to look up the word and words associated with it.

I was just working on this and something struck me.

I was curious if anyone else has felt this way.

Here are the words.

Attachment

Connection

Bonding

Affection

Why do all of these words have a feeling, to me, that I would owe someone something if I offered these words to someone?

It feels to me that it implies sex in some way.

Somehow it feels, to me, that something would be expected of me.

It feels like a trap.

A dangerous place.

Something that would be used against me.

I know this is not true, but I don’t know why I feel that way.

I can’t understand why.

If I can’t understand “why” I can’t figure out how to fix it.

Does this make sense to anyone?

Thank you for hearing me.