Glad he is back and he appears okay.

My daughter was a hellion until she got an entry-level job and paid part of her way for college at 19. (She takes two classes a term and we pay for one of them.) That and having her boyfriend live here has wised her up quite a bit. He still doesn't have all the executive stuff going on but she keeps him straight almost all the time. Sometimes he has to learn the hard way. She still doesn't drive but she'll be going to therapy and maybe take meds to see if that will help her.