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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
I don't blame you. It is such curve ball, and unexpected . I can freak myself out about my T with zero evidence, and if this happened to me I wouldn't be handing it as well as you processing it on the forum, and really thinking about what to do. I think it is a good time to clarify what result you most want, independently of her. Do you feel there is work left to do with her or is it time to move on- in the big picture?
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Wow..thank you. I can see that I have come a ways since last week. I've certainly had freak-out moments. **Your question** is really a focusing one: what is the result that I most want....I guess I want a therapist that I can work with to deal with my relationship status issue. And I think I have to determine if it can be HER, given her reactions last week. Maybe I go back and just float it, plain as day, because that is the last (and huge) issue on my Goals of Life statement.