Thanks, Curly, but, you know, I"ve been single for over 10 years now, and tried all of the others at one time or another for very short spurts, so I'm familiar with them.. My observation is that many of the same fellas are on there perpetually...meaning many years (at least in my age group!)....
I think I made a mistake doing this again, even on Eharmony!
Right now I"m attempting to quit smoking (for the umpteenth time!) as well as starting to exercise finally once again after 4 years of couch potato-ing.
I had a girlfriend who told me one time, if she got divorced- single again, she would find a BIG church and meet men there. I have gone to church, one I really like, but it's small, with mostly married folks much older than me !
At the same time, I like just going to church for the peace of mind it gives me without motives of meeting a man, so for now it's exercise, quit smoking and maybe spiritual fulfillment once again. The last fellow I dated, 4 years ago, scoffed at religion and I felt so embarrassed, I let it go for all this time...sad, isn't it!
Love
Patty