Thank you everyone for your help. Yes it is complicated. There is more going on other than what I listed. I tried to be factual in hopes that would help. I know he has intimacy issues. I figured he kept me at a distance for so long for a reason. He does not want to lose me and he plans for our future together. Which confused me for so long. The fact that we are crossing in my opinion the final barrier is what gives me pause. I have longed for it, but it makes since that he is retaining control and setting the pace. Makes me wonder if and when we finally cross the last barrier if he will be ready for more or if he is taking it so slow because he doesn't want to hurt or lose me. I don't know. But what you all said helped to give me a bit more insight. Thank you all very much.