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Originally Posted by marbleye
Is "feel me" a lesbian term? For instance a woman wants her lover to manually stimulate her.
There is a term "feel her up".
I am a male and most women ask or tell me to touch or rub. This particular woman had already orgasmed and she said, " you don't need to feel me".
Any comments please.
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no that term is not limited to just lesbians. my married best friend who is not a lesbian says it to her husband all the time as do others that I know.
you know how there are all kinds of fad sayings like there for a while everyone was saying the phrase "thats what I'm talking about" or heres an oldie from my siblings teen aged era... "sit and spin" meaning go.... yourself...
well the phrase "feel me" and "dont feel me" is just a way for anyone to tell their sexual partner what they need.... like when a person wants a kiss they say kiss me or dont kiss me... well telling someone to feel me or dont feel me lets the other person know what they want.
in intimate relationships its normal to tell each other what feels good or not, whether more touching is needed or not and so on.
my suggestion is talk with the person who said this to you, they will be able to tell you why they were communicating with you on what they needed or didnt need after sex.