I do understand. I know what SI is about. Its sometimes triggering but mostly not. Its just SI. Keep being yourself. just research SI and let her know about it. Its all you can do to make sure she gets it. My mom says she wont pressure me into saying i will NEVER SI because she knows it may not happen. but she still dont like it. She wishes i didnt have that to take away the pain.

So talk to her. show her articles on SI

Hope this helps.

Colleen