Hmm, that's an interesting response from your T and pdoc. (recommending you to "not touch DID with a 10 foot pole". That wouldn't inspire trust in me. They acknowledge you have a dissociative disorder but when you mention symptoms that are specific to one particular dissociative disorder they say to not think about it? To me that would indicate their position towards the disorder more than anything else.
What do you think about what they have said to you?