Can anyone help me? my partner of 7 years has cheated on my with my bestfriend they had a fling for nearly 4 weeks they had only slept together once had kissed a couple of times all this happened whilst i was out at work on a night shift we have 2 kids together a home we have built and put alot of time and effort in to make it happen i thought we had a great relationship everyone always loved us together thought we was the perfect match.....my best friend who i have been there for everything started of texting him with attention etc first and my partner didnt take the bait straight away i dont know what was said via these texts but all i know is they said they had feelings for one another! i was heartbroken and still am we are trying to make things work as she has now gone back to her husband!! i dont know if this was some sort of lust fantasy but she was round my house most days acting normal asif she wasnt doing anything wrong when behind my back she was texting him . he come clean to me about everything i i sad i will never forget but i can forgive you in time as he has never done anything like this before i dont even know why there are so many questions but i dont think i want to hear the answers as i know enough i love him so so much and couldnt be without him as for her i dont wanna know she is dead to me all that fakeness ! i did everything for her and her children i just need help can i get past this feeling he seems to think we have gone back to normal as everything is ok but in my head its not im scared i dont want to lose him..