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Originally Posted by Rayne_
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I was with him for 5 years. I thought i was "attached " and "working through the transference". In reality, the therapy recreated the dynamics of my abusive childhood, and my T blamed me for everything. I couldn't get out of it for a lomg time
. . .T trauma on top of childhood trauma is extremely damaging and harmful. And lasting like childhood trauma.
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I so get this, Rayne. PC has helped me somewhat to vent, and "recover"? I'm better than I was 18 months ago. Not near OK, though. I'm also trying in-person support groups.
There needs to be an advocacy group for this, too, I think. Problem is, at least for me, I've gotten so beat down by T trauma that I can't function very well! Maybe in a few years I'll be able to do something -- but I'm 70!!!!
Really, really sucks.
Feel free to PM me, if you would like.