I was thinking, if she’d already orgasmed, her saying “you don’t need to feel me,” may mean not to feel or rub her clitoris.
After a clitoral orgasm the nerve endings are super stimulated & very sensitive. So maybe it means that she needs a break from touching or rubbing it afterwards....almost letting it cool down.
Idk.
Like AmandaLoiuse said it wouldn’t hurt to ask too.