Thanks for responding to my post. Latly he has been trying to do better and he treats me really good, but I am just like how long is this going to last. I have already gave him 2 chances. It is like this three strikes and you are out. If he messes up one more time I am through with him. I deseerve so much better. To a degree he is trustworthy, but I am still learning him and his ways. I refuse to be with someone who I cannot trust. Yes I do think that the two of us can make things better. I know that he wants it to work. I do too. His attitude does change when he has been drinking. The thing is that when he is upset or mad at me he sais things tht really hurt my feelings. I mean really mean things and after what is said I am so ready to break up with him and then I ask myself why do I stay with him after he has said the things that he has said. The truth between two people really come out when your mad at one another. Right?? I feel the same way you do. If he keeps doing the same thing after I have talked to him I will break up with him, but latley he has been trying to not make the same mistakes. As long as I see him trying I think the relationship will work, but if not then I am just going to have to sdet my feelings aside and break up with him. I am 21 years old and the guy is 24 years old. I have the reat of my life ahead of me and I don't have time for bull crap. I have too many goals for myself that I need to achieve and I don't need time wasted. happiness is what I want and I am not going to stay if I am not happy. Right now I am content with our relationship, but I think the big problem now is the money situation. I am tired of him asking me for money. I don't really have any money. I shouldn't be with a man who is asking me for money all the time right? I mean we have only been involved now for one month. By the way thanks for the advice. I hope to hear from you soon.